Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Neglecting the Blog

Blog, I have neglected you for much too long. There’s SO much that’s happened that I’ve been meaning to tell you, but I just procrastinate too much and then I forget about it and I keep putting it off and soon, the idea I wanted so badly to write down just isn’t there anymore, you know?
Well the person I’ve liked for I guess a while now is slowly fading from my like zone. I don’t know why, but he just is. And the person who I’ve pushed to the back of my mind is slowly making his way forward. That, I don’t know the reason to either. I guess it’s just one of those things that happen. Like, why do you grow older? Cause time passes and you just do. Why do we stop liking the people we like? Cause time passes and we just do. It’s not a right or wrong thing and it’s certainly not your fault.
I just thought I’d write this for a couple people I know who are having difficulties in their relationship right now. You get over people. And though that may hurt the other person, you can’t just stay with them cause you feel bad. That’s SO unfair to the other person cause I mean, how would you feel if someone stayed with you out of sympathy? Or even pity? Sometimes it’s best to move on sooner than later cause it’ll only be harder for you to make a decision later. And about everything you’ve gone through and everything you’ve built together…that’s hard to let go of, but if you don’t leave it in the past where it belongs, you’ll never be able to set foot in the future properly. And you know what, sometimes you don’t have to always let go…
One of my best friends once told me, “I will move on, but I will never let go”. And that’s one of the most powerful and meaningful quotes I’ve ever heard. Remember that it’s okay to move on and that if you hold back when you don’t want to, it can just hurt the both of you in the long run. Sometimes what you can't live without isn't always good for you.
Okay, I’m just gonna stop there before I make myself sound more like an idiot than I already do.


X, Julie

PS. Oh my gosh, I just realized that this may have been my shortest post yet! I didn't feel like adding on to it. This post doesn't even make sense, but I'll just post it anyway. I'm working on another post. I'm sorry it's been a month since I've written anything! Agh, okay, well I'll post to you later! :)

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