Saturday, December 26, 2009

"Those" Moments.

I love "those" moments. The ones where you're talking to someone and you're lost and confused and hurt and pissed off and just can't figure anything out. And then they say something that just warms your heart because it's exactly what you've been wanting to hear. I told Chelsea about the previous post and she said something that was great for me.

CHELSEA:
"I can't say I understand exactly what you're going through, because obviously I don't. but remember that if you don't have him as a boyfriend, you have him as a friend first. I think it's important to prioritize the relationships that you have with people, and if you ever start feeling something like that towards someone, it's important to put friendship first, liking them second. Because where would the second one be without the first one?"


Thanks Chels, I needed that :) But ABOUT the previous post..I know it was harsh and mean and I am sorry, but I think I'm okay with that subject now. So I wrote something yesterday while talking to Tiffany:

Well idk, I've always said "just let them be" all sarcastically to myself, but now I'm thinking you know, just let them be. I told *-*-*-*-* that if -*-*-*- doesn't like her, then it's not mean to be and it's better to move on than waste your time and effort with something that's not gonna happen. And I guess this is another one of the scenarios where I have to take my own advice. Today, -*-*-*-*-* talked to me for the first time in a while and we had a normal conversation and it wasn't awkward and I'm not gonna be like [HE] TALKED TO ME, OMGOMGOMG. I'm glad that we're still friends whether he knows I like him or not. And if I really really think about it, I'M the one who's still lingering on the thought of them possibly being together. -----'s been really nice and he hasn't brought them up. And even though they may be the talk & gossip around right now, it doesn't mean that I have to over analyze everything they do and everything everyone else says.

Writing this sort of pulled all the crumbly parts together and helped me realize that if the guy I like doesn't like me, WHO CARES, it's not the end of the world and this has happened before and it happens to everybody and it's NOT as big of a deal as I put it out to be. So I think for now, I'm going to be okay.

Thanks so much to everyone who helped me out with this. You all know I love you guys loads and more. <3

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